AFTER THE TSUNAMI… How to Cope With Human Tragedy The tsunami that recently hit the coastal regions of Southeast Asia has created a human tragedy beyond the imaginable. The emotional impact of this disaster has been felt by people everywhere: survivors, family members and friends of victims, rescue workers, emergency medical personnel, volunteers, media representatives, members of the communities, citizens of the countries - the world. As the death toll continues to rise and many persons still remaining missing, there is a sense of horror, helplessness, grief, and depression that reverberates through our global community. For those individuals who are waiting to hear about what has happened to family, co-workers, friends, the distress is particularly overwhelming. Common Reactions to Trauma Everyone responds differently to trauma. Most people who directly experience a major trauma have severe reactions in the immediate aftermath. Many individuals then feel better within a three month period of time. However, others recover more slowly, and some do not recover without professional help. Some of the most common problems include: Re-experiencing of the trauma. People who have been traumatized often experience flashbacks, nightmares, and unwanted thoughts of the event. Because a traumatic event is so shocking and so different from everyday experience, the mind keeps bringing the memories back as if to somehow understand or try to make sense of the event. Increased arousal. People who have experienced a trauma may feel shaky, startle easily, have difficulty concentrating, experience irritability or outbursts of anger, and have problems with sleeping. The body’s fight or flight response is on continuous alert, as if in preparation for another attack. Avoidance. People will often manage trauma-related pain by avoiding the activities, places, thoughts or feelings associated with the traumatic event. This can lead to feelings of numbness or detachment from others. Tips for Coping and Dealing With Stress 1. Acknowledge that your physical, mental and emotional reactions are normal reactions to an abnormal event. 2. Keep to your normal daily routine. Familiar life patterns can be very comforting. 3. Commit to eating healthy, exercising, and getting enough rest. 4. Spend time with others - family and friends. Coping is easier when people support each other. 5. Talk with someone about your experiences and your feelings. Be willing to listen to others who may need to talk about theirs. 6. Take time to grieve. It’s okay to cry… 7. Engage in rituals or other symbolic activities that support your expression of feelings. 8. Find ways to relax and be gentle with yourself. Go for a walk, sit in the sun, take a hot bath, spend time with a pet. 9. Limit your responsibilities. If you are trying to do too much, give up a few things that are not absolutely necessary. Ask yourself, “What’s the one thing I can do today that will make a difference?” 10. Do not hold yourself responsible for the traumatic event; recognize that you cannot control everything. Helping Children Cope 1. Take the time to listen to your child. Encourage your child’s expression of feelings or concerns. Validate your child’s feelings and let your child know it is okay to feel upset when something bad or scary happens. 2. Recognize the impact of your own emotional reactions upon your child. Provide reassurance to your child that he/she is safe with you. 4. Limit exposure to media coverage of the trauma. Younger children may not understand words but do remember visual images. 5. Be honest when answering your child’s questions. Keep responses at the level of your child’s interest and understanding. 6. With older children, they may want to know how they can help or make a difference. Offer suggestions, such as volunteer involvement in donation-raising activities. 7. Encourage participation in rituals, memorials or other symbolic activities. |
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